I’m annoyed with my whole family… grrr… soo i finished school for the year, I applied for like 3 jobs which I didn’t get since I don’t have experience. Finally my bf kinda pushed me to work at a company which is not the best for their employees (lol I won’t say where just in case someone on here works there). It’s not a dream job, it’s quite bad but it is a job, I choose to work night shift and do stocking and stuff, now everyone is acting soo disappointed.
Wtf if I didn’t get that job I would probably sit on my @$$ this summer pretending I’m looking for some fancy jobs and I would be broke and would have to depend on others. I got a lecture from my mom that I should be volunteering at some government companies, I got a lecture from my dad that I must go to graduate school, it’s sooo expensive and is it even worth it? I’m in soooo much debt now and I feel like I can’t work in many of the jobs that are out there.. I am trying to be responsible and act like an adult, most people had jobs throughout high school, I had 2 jobs in the past both short term, I lack the social skills to be good and I’m scared to apply to some of the jobs that might pay more. I’m almost done uni, and even if I do get good grades, I need to learn how to be assertive and talk to people and I think just about any job will help me gain that, not sitting at home and looking for jobs which I’m not qualified for… My brother even got pissed off that I went back to that company, it’s not like I’m stuck there for life, I wanna work NOW and feel like i can take care of myself, I can’t climb a huge mountain when I stumble on a little hill, they just don’t get it waaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh lol ok soo I’m done my whining for tonight and I’m a little better
today was the worst day of the year for me, i had to do a presentation for my class, i wanted to drop the class as soon as i knew i had to present, but i thought i can't run away from this, i won't graduate.
now i'm almost crying, i did the presentation but my voice was shaking and i wanted to cry, i also have an accent when speaking english so i thought no one could understand what i was saying, at the end when i sat down some guy told me good job, but i thought he was feeling pity for me since i looked so nervous. this makes me feel like such a loser and even though i worked so hard on my stuff i feel like i will always keep the stuff i learned inside and people will judge me that i can't talk properly. i feel so hopeless and i already knew what will happen :( hopefully i can erase this experience from my memory soon enough...
ok i'm just venting here, i don't wanna make everyone else miserable. lol
i found a good article for today from www.askmen.com
Hangover Cures
Here are a few hangover cures you might want to try You’re thirsty and you’re irritable. Everything in the room is too bright and every sound is magnified to an uncomfortable intensity. Your muscles feel weak and wobbly, and you’ve been vomiting for most of the morning. However, you’re not sick -- at least not in the traditional sense. You’re just in the depths of hangover misery.
Loosely defined, a hangover happens when you drink more alcohol than your body can comfortably break down. All that booze you slammed the night before does a number on your body: It causes your blood vessels to relax, giving you a headache; it irritates the stomach lining, causing nausea and diarrhea; and since alcohol is a diuretic, it makes you hella thirsty. Other symptoms can include body shakes, anxiety and overall weakness.
Luckily, hangovers aren’t forever and there are steps you can take to relieve some of your self-caused misery. Read on to discover what will put a spring in your step and what could make you feel even worse with these hangover cures.
Eggs
Eggs contain cysteine, an
amino acid that steps up liver function and allows your body to break down remaining booze toxins faster.
Ginseng
Popular in Eastern medicine, where it’s used for a myriad of conditions including improving energy levels, boosting memory and helping the immune system, ginseng may relieve the lethargic feeling that accompanies many hangovers. Taken before the party, ginseng can help your body speed up the processing of alcohol. If you take it the next day, ginseng can ease that tired feeling by giving you more energy.
Sports drinks
They’re used by athletes to rehydrate after a rigorous workout, so why not slurp a sports drink as a hangover cure? Although some particularly queasy bellies may be upset by the sugar content, sports drinks can go a long way in your body’s post-booze recuperation. They’re full of potassium, minerals and carbohydrates, which will help relieve dehydration as it gives your blood sugar level a boost.
Fruit juice
Fruit juice contains vitamins and sugar, which you’ll need if you want to replenish your lost nutrients and give your body an energy increase. Just make sure you’re drinking juice made from real fruits (as opposed to artificial flavors).
Vitamins
Vitamin B will aid in metabolizing alcohol and will help your alcohol-constricted blood vessels to dilate. Vitamin C nudges the liver into breaking down alcohol. Just make sure you don’t take too much
vitamin C -- an overdose can cause diarrhea. In both cases, the vitamins are most effective if taken before a drinking binge, but may also bring relief if you take them in the morning.
Painkillers
“Take two aspirin and call me in the morning.” Popping a painkiller before bed is a remedy that some drinkers swear by, but you need to give pause before you proceed. Acetaminophen, found in Tylenol, can cause extreme liver damage when there’s already alcohol in your bloodstream, so never use it as a hangover cure. Aspirin and ibuprofen (the main ingredient in Advil) can be hard on the stomach and possibly make your
hangover worse.
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Next >>Water
Since many hangover symptoms result from simple
dehydration, water is perhaps one of the most effective hangover cures of all. It will not only work as a pre-drinking measure against a hangover, but it will also help you recover when you’re in full-blown hangover misery.
Dairy
Even though dairy products contain B vitamins, which are helpful in reducing hangover symptoms, it’s probably not a good idea to be guzzling a glass of milk when your stomach is already feeling queasy. Stay away from the dairy until your insides feel more stable.
Greasy food
Stay away from that drive-through
fast food window. The sticky quality that allows greasy food to line the stomach can help prevent hangovers, but when you’re already hung over, fatty foods can be a no-no. The greasiness can make your stomach feel even worse.
Coffee
Caffeine may wake you up for a bit, but once the effect wears off, you’ll crash and end up more tired than you were before. Plus, don’t go for the water-sapping effect of
caffeine if your body is already in need of hydration.
bite the booze bullet
Though the most obvious remedy (not drinking at all) is 100% effective, it’s not the most popular one. If you must indulge in an excess of alcohol, make sure you at least eat beforehand, as drinking alcohol on an empty stomach will only magnify the effect of the booze and the following hangover. Try having a drink of water after every drink, and if you’re drinking hard liquor, drink it straight because the sugar in the mix you choose will likely intensify your drunkenness.
And if things end up getting out of hand, you can always glean whatever relief is possible from the empty promise repeated by millions on many a hungover morning: “I’ll never drink that much again.”
Resources:
http://health.howstuffworks.com
www.soyouwanna.com
www.rupissed.com
www.curemyhangover.com
