i have been terrible. i work with my ex-girlfiend. she broke up with me over
a year ago, because she got pregnant from some other
guy. maybe she cheated on me i'm not sure. i had
tried to be friends with her, and even though it was
tough, she was probably my best friend, and i was
probably hers. she had been getting closer to the
baby's father, even though he's a real asshole. the
both of them were heavy heavy drinkers and used to
treat each other like crap. well yesterday, at lunch,
she shows me her promise ring from this guy. and i'm
basically like "how do you want me to respond to this?
and i basically told her that she's caused me enough
pain, and i don't really want to be her friend
anymore. she was crying, and i think she was about
ready to have a panic attack. it's really been a
terrible experience for me. the depression she has
caused me, and she wants be my friend still? even
though she's getting back together with my enemy? i really don't know if i can go on. this situation has cause me so much pain, even if i wanted to move on i can't because i don't know how to talk to women, so therefore i can't date.
i am having a difficult time getting over my ex girlfriend. i am 29 and she was the first girl i ever dated. we broke up over 3 months ago and i still can't get her out of my head she was like my bestfriend and we along so wekl together. but she got pregnant a week before i got around to asking her out
im obsessed with what could have been if she hadn't gotten pregnant. were still good friends but it hurts to have a platonic relatiionship with her when i'm still in love with her. then again she is my best friend so i would be more depressed if we stopped talking. so its a catch 22.
