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Took the plunge
Posted On: 07/17/2008 05:05:02

I've had a crush on this one girl for quite some time now... Today, as luck would have it, I saw her for the first time in a few weeks. She seemed happy to see me again, and we got into a conversation. I was quite nervous, though I think I kept my composure. As the conversation started winding down, I figured it was now or never. A wave of anxiety passed over me as I asked her out. She said yes.

I'm worried now, about various things.

When she inquires about my social life, what am I supposed to tell her? That's the main issue really. What are the odds that she'll ask a question like that? What would be an acceptable answer, which isn't off-putting or unsettling?

I find her really attractive, and I enjoy talking to her. I think dating her is worth a shot. Also, it's just been so long (over a year) since I've had any romantic or intimate contact with a woman that I think I'll go crazy. I suppose I should take it easy, try and be casual and avoid overly high expectations. The less seriously I take it, the more enjoyable I think it will be.



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From: JoshA73
07/22/2008 06:42:19

Just tell her that you don't get out much, but you would if the right type of girl came along.



From: the_real_solo
07/18/2008 04:57:28

CONGRATS!!!! Sorry but I suck in the advice deparment & don't have any. But WAY TO GO!!!! U did awesome asking her out :) :)




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