Hi there I was looking at your blog and I was just thinking. Have you ever went to a site named meetup.com? I went there and found that most large cities have groups of all kinds that meet up. I happend to of recently take over the leadership of the local socialanxiety shyness group in my city and its going great. So far we havent dont anything fancy just meet at a restruant and share stories. I f you dont have one near by maby you can start one of your own.
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