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Did I do something?
Posted On 06/28/2008 02:57:27 by Embarr

Hey people, guess what?


I got into my first car accident today. My fault, their fault. I'm not really sure. I'm vehemently saying that I yielded though. I stopped, people say I didn't stop but I did. There were two witnesses and one of them was in a parking lot where he didn't actually see anything! At first I was comepletly broken down. I'm a cautious driver, I don't get into accidents. I was just getting used to driving and this happens. Is fate out to get me or something? First, I thought I had a job in the bag and then I find out quite unpleasantly that, no, they don't want me. I was just starting to feel good about everything. I went out to a baptism, talked to the guy I liked and then got into a car accident. And then the woman gets out of her car and says "What were you thinking?!" in a rude, angry voice. I just wanted to say "I don't know, but now I'm thinking I never want to drive again!" Of course instead I said "I've never done this before." I knew I couldn't go without an accident for long, but did it have to be now?


On the bright side, now I know what an insurance and registration card look like. I was wondering about that... It's probably a good thing that I didn't know until now. Now I have to go to driving school though. I just wish the woman had been a little more nice about it. Why couldn't I have gotten a kind mother hen for my first car accident. Or an indifferent old man? My parents, they were so nice about it. I love them for that. My dad laughs it off and my mom tries to make me laugh and tell about how horrible her first car accidents were. Great, now I'm tearing up again. It did make me feel better and they are encouraging me to keep on driving. They even want me to go to this activity tonight. Heh, they're more concerned that I'm not getting out enough that a mild accident is barely a blip on the radar. Wow, I just typed mild. I think I'm really getting over it. Wow.

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From: Embarr
06/29/2008 07:36:38


prism wrote:

You were right, it does sound like you had a bad day :(. I hardly know anyone who has never been in an accident before, and the other driver ALWAYS blame you no matter whose fault it is. Don't let this discourage you from driving.



I've had one accident to date so far and it that case it was completely my fault. I was actually on the job in an unfamiliar area and I was looking side to side for my store (I stocked shelves) and I rear-ended a guy going about 15-20 mph. Fortunately for me, he was pretty much the nicest guy anyone could ever hope to crash into!!! He was very nice about it which helped a lot because my anxiety was pretty much through the roof (especially given I was driving my moms car at the time!).


I'm pretty much sure that it was my fault. Not entirely my fault but mostly my fault. It was just one of those days where I couldn't hit the brake fast enough and I tapped a corner of her car just enough to damage the bumper but not enough for there to be any jolt. She was kinda in my lane and I was a little too far to the left. *sigh* I've been mostly upset because the "witnesses" said I didn't stop before I made the turn.

I'm glad you got a good person that took the accident well. People should be  more mild mannered when  dealing with stuff like this. If I ever get in  an accident again (let's hope not) and I'm the one rear-ended I might be upset, but I'm going to make sure that I don't say anyting like "What were you thinking". I'd probably ask them if they're okay, the way I am.



From: prism
06/29/2008 04:39:36

You were right, it does sound like you had a bad day :(. I hardly know anyone who has never been in an accident before, and the other driver ALWAYS blame you no matter whose fault it is. Don't let this discourage you from driving.


I've had one accident to date so far and it that case it was completely my fault. I was actually on the job in an unfamiliar area and I was looking side to side for my store (I stocked shelves) and I rear-ended a guy going about 15-20 mph. Fortunately for me, he was pretty much the nicest guy anyone could ever hope to crash into!!! He was very nice about it which helped a lot because my anxiety was pretty much through the roof (especially given I was driving my moms car at the time!).



From: millenniumman75
06/28/2008 11:07:26
I had an accident where I was able to stop before hitting the guy in front of me, but the car behind me couldn't - she hit me and pushed me into the SUV! The SUV driver was just frothing at the mouth, while the other two of us just stayed in the car - it was a pretty bad thunderstorm when it happened. I was driving a Metro at the time.

I actually had FOUR accidents in that car. Two were my fault, two (including that one) weren't. As of that accident, the car was supposed to have been totalled, even though it was driveable. The car dealership went ahead with the repairs when they really shouldn't have. I could have used the money for a new car. I can't complain, though. The car looked almost brand new, and I survived another two years with the totalled car before the transmission finally gave out (it lasted 105,000 miles!). The car wasn't worth the repairs so I junked it and got my Mustang. It is a much more stable car.

Your accident will stay on your record for three to five years, and then it will disappear. As for the driving penalty (in Ohio at least) it is two years. You would have probably received two points tops (12 in a two-year period is automatic suspension here). You are nowhere near that. :)

As for the lady, she had a right to be upset, but she sure didn't show very good judgment!


From: Ramsis
06/28/2008 07:25:28

hey dear, how r u? come on, accidents happen, it's not a big deal, this accident is what will make you never make an accident again, take your time and drive again :)



From: ProTonicBlue531
06/28/2008 03:32:11

I rememer taping this one lady in the back bumper and her getting all buzzed up, good times good times. She sued me for 50 grand.





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