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Posted On 06/13/2008 01:06:55 by Spirit

I'm having some moral dilemmas at the moment cos i've met this woman i dated a long time ago but i sabotaged the relationship and it ended very quickly. Now i have re-aquainted with her and i can't get her out of my mind. She seems to like me in a similar way, unless i'm just very naive. The problem is that she has been going out with someone for 7 years and is living with him. I don't seem to care about him, it's not that i'm an insensitive person but as long as i don't know a person i battle to care about them. It's quite strange cos i do care deeply for people i know but when things happen to people i don't know personally it doesn't bother me. I might be wrong and maybe she doesn't like me in the same way, but maybe it's better to be in love with somebody even if it's not mutual than to not have strong feelings for anybody.



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From: Wesh
06/17/2008 02:26:47

Hello!  If you want my advice, you should try to be clear with her.  Ask her how she feels about you?  Tell her that you regret having ended the relationship so quickly in the past (if that's how you feel?) and that you think about her a lot but that you are torn since you know that she is in a committed relationship now.  The rest is up to her.  However, if you think that you are wrong about her feelings, it would be taking a risk, but at least you can rest easy knowing that you were honest.  Good luck and courage man!  We only live once right?



From: TAMPABAY
06/13/2008 08:34:16

Sounds like you are going down a dead end street but thats just my oponion.

Why did you sabotaged the relationsip the first time?





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