I'm having some moral dilemmas at the moment cos i've met this woman i dated a long time ago but i sabotaged the relationship and it ended very quickly. Now i have re-aquainted with her and i can't get her out of my mind. She seems to like me in a similar way, unless i'm just very naive. The problem is that she has been going out with someone for 7 years and is living with him. I don't seem to care about him, it's not that i'm an insensitive person but as long as i don't know a person i battle to care about them. It's quite strange cos i do care deeply for people i know but when things happen to people i don't know personally it doesn't bother me. I might be wrong and maybe she doesn't like me in the same way, but maybe it's better to be in love with somebody even if it's not mutual than to not have strong feelings for anybody.