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Posted On 02/18/2008 08:29:51 by melissa1978
well, im not sure how im feeling right now. im upset.  ive been fighting for so long with my anxiety, it has become normal to me.  me and my ex have been seperated for 8 year and our daughter starts crying saying she doesnt want to go with him anymore.; i sat her down and  got her to open up and she explained that  she doesnt want to leave me. shes scared something will happen to me while shes gone. ive tried so hard to not let this affect her. ad it made me realize how much this is hurting others not only me.  i dont know how to make her see  everythings ok .  i tell her an reassure her. idont want her to worry about things . she shouldnt have to.

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From: Angelfayce
02/19/2008 08:53:20
I struggle with this very same thing.. I feel like a horrible mother somethimes and I fear that I will pass this down to my kids..But the very fact that you care so much means that you are a wonderful mother and I know you will find a way to reassure her and protect her..hang in there I am here if you need to talk


From: melissa1978
02/18/2008 11:55:05
shes done real well through the years and she excels in all aspects. she just threw it on me. i didnt know she felt so bad, and i felt so bad for being the reason she feels that way. ive always tried to be strong or her.  somehow i wasnt strong enough, i broke down and cried after i made her go to her dads. the last thing i want is for her to suffer because of me.  here i go crying again.  i just dont know how to reassure her in a way she will be sure of.   i feel like im  losing control  more and more every day and it scares me. 


From: SpesVitae
02/18/2008 09:13:38
I have a hard time not letting anxiety adversely influence school and friendships myself, but I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a loving mother like yourself to deal not only with your SA but also with making sure it doesn't affect your daughter as well. I wish I had good advice for you, but I'll remember you in my prayers tonight. And if that's your daughter in your profile's background, she has a wonderful, radiant smile.


From: Ashley
02/18/2008 08:39:53
i really hope things get better for you :)  your daughter sounds like a sweet girl


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