I have a really bad problem with burning bridges. Whenever someone upsets me, instead of saying something to them, I'll just stop talking to them.
And I really want to burn this bridge.
K and I were pretty good friends at the start of college. We studied together, went to conferences together, talked on the phone, everything. But then she joined a sorority and I didn't. Things weren't going to change between us, but she started hanging out more with the people in her sorority and I felt left out. I flipped out one night about it, and actually DID say something to her and another friend about it, but they were just like, "No, no. Nothing has changed!" A few months later, I stopped talking to her.
By the time we graduated, we were on speaking terms, but it was more like the occasional e-mail than frequent calls. Then last Christmas I found out she had been in my hometown and hadn't told me. Even though we weren't good friends anymore, I still felt betrayed and went back to not talking to her.
Then last month, right before my birthday, she sends me a Friend Request on MySpace. I thought this might be a good way to break the ice again, so I accepted and we sent each other a few e-mails. Then about 15 minutes ago, I was looking on her site and found out she had been in my hometown AGAIN without telling me! Would it have killed her to stop and see me for 5 minutes or have lunch? I probably have no right feeling the way I do, but I feel so hurt :( She was one of the last best friends I ever had and now I have no one. 
