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my love life...advice please?
Posted On 07/09/2007 08:20:32 by shygal11

my love life used to suck because of my extreme shyness...but recently i started talking to this great guy that goes to my school, and its obvious that we like each other!  i have fallen for him soo fast, and i love him because he really brings me out of my shell.  i never run out of things to talk about with him, and just the other night i talked on the phone with him for 5 hours!  thats the longest i've ever talked to anyone ever!  l0l!!  

 but of course theres one problem.....

 even though talk on the phone / internet is easy for me...talking & connecting with him in person is hard.  i get soo nervous & cant think of what to say to him.  i dont know what to do!  has this happened to anyone else??  im afraid that if i get so stiff around him too often that he will lose interest in me & move on!!  does anyone have any tips that can help me to loosen up & talk to him?  cause i really dont want to lose him.......



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From: mindfulgirl
07/10/2007 07:34:49

From my experience...after hanging out with him in person a few times, it will get easier and you will feel more comfortable with him. I'm so happy that you've made such a connection with him. Let us know how it goes. (((HUGS)))



From: shygal11
07/10/2007 06:51:59
thanks for the advice everyone =)


From: TorLin
07/10/2007 05:20:44

Id say be yourself too.

my love life sucks also. Im here for ya :) 



From: nikkiblues21
07/09/2007 09:17:08
well theirs obviously a connection between the two of you..Talking  on the phone for 5 hours and all lol wow...Just like Joez said be yourself..Just be that same girl thats at ease on the phone, in person..But I def know that feeling and easier said than done lol


From: shygal11
07/09/2007 08:57:21
aww thanks soo much for taking the time to read this & giving advice...i appreciate it a lot =)


From: joez
07/09/2007 08:52:06
well, everybody says just be yourself.  and it seems to be good advice.  :)  maybe try journaling, exercise, meditation.  There are many different things.  Take your date experience as a learning opportunity too.  Dont try to get everything perfect.  Have fun:).  




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