Hello there TereMV, I would like to welcome you to the Social Anxiety Friends (SAF) website. I hope you come to realize that your not alone, and that you can be here with friends.
I hope you will add me to your friends list, and don't feel hesitate to ask any questions about SAF with me or anyone else. Its a great website.
Oh cool, your from California too. There is a whole bunch of us here in California on this website.