Internet.
Local History.
Walking.

I don't watch many of these, but I like things such as Billy Elliott and Beautiful Thing. They show boys outside of the normal stereotypes, and give me something I can take heart from, as it is much the same as I feel I am.

I like quite a range of music. I'm into trance and some techno, but also older songs, especially the really sentimental love songs. Classical is OK, but it has to be of the right type, and I need to be in the right mood. I enjoy a good brass band best of all.

A Friend Like Henry.
Goodnight Mister Tom.

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Caring, compassionate, kind people. I like caring for people and being empathetic, but need a close friend to do the same for me. Someone quiet, and gentle, and understanding.

Beautiful countryside, gardens, and woodlands. I find these so therapeutic and peaceful.

Love listening to people, especially if they're needing someone to talk to. Children & young teenagers are a real tonic to me. I can relax when in their company, unlike with adults.

Sport, SPORT, S P O R T.
Noise.
Large crowds, or more so small groups, which I avoid as much as possible, especially the latter. I feel that they are all looking at me and thinking the worst of me.

I've always suffered from a lack of confidence, possibly started by having a distant father, and no alternative role-model. This was not helped by bullying by peers at school. As a result I'm very withdrawn, shy and quiet, and am also rather feminine in my character.

More recently I have become very depressed at the loss of my only friend - one that I was really close to and I felt understood & respected me. This has taken away the small amount of confidence and self-esteem that I managed to build up over the years. Due to my SAD, I find it extremely hard to reach out and join in new activities in order to make friends. I would sooner be alone in spite of my sadness. The Internet, due to its nature, allows me to reach out much more easily and speak with others.



You Are An ISFJ




The Nurturer



You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal.

A good listener, you excel at helping others in practical ways.

In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music.

You find it easy to be devoted to one person, who you do special things for.



In love, you express your emotions through actions.

Taking care of someone is how you love them. And you do it well!



At work, you do well in a structured environment. You complete tasks well and on time.

You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist.



How you see yourself: Competent, dependable, and detail oriented



When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, dominant, and stuck in a rut